A Reminder as we begin a new year:
We all have our dreams--no matter our age. Oh, sometimes we have
different names for them: we call them hopes, aspirations, objectives,
and when we really want to take them seriously--goals. But they're all
just our dreams--for us and for those we love.
And dreams are not
necessarily bad things; in fact, they are usually good things. They keep
us positive in our view of the future. They can motivate us to do our
best, to make sacrifices for the good of others. They can build within
us an endurance, a determination to keep going through difficult times.
Even "castles built in the air" can cause us to keep our feet on the
ground, pursuing better things through hard work and perseverance.
Dreams can be a very positive influence in our lives.
Yet, dreams
can be a hindrance as well. One of the greatest tragedies of life can be
the power we give to the dreams we have of what a perfect future for us
should look like. We have decided that in our future we will only be
happy if we have that perfect husband or wife, adoring, beautiful
children, a job that provides for us all the financial security we
deserve, a house, a nice car, a perfect church, etc. All those things we
are sure we deserve. And yet, those dreams if outside the will of God
for our lives can be deadly, spiritually devastating. Such dreams if
unfulfilled can cause us to make decisions trying to fulfill them that
break the hearts of those we are called by God to love unconditionally.
They can cause us to turn in anger from following God, from trusting His
love and wisdom. We claim that He's blown it--that He doesn't care for
us, that He doesn't really know what we need. We live the miserable "if
only" life of a hopeless world. Or worse: we create a hopeless, joyless
world for others.
Yet, God does know exactly what I need. He knows
exactly what it will take to transform me into His likeness. He knows
exactly what I need so that my life has eternal significance, not a mere
earthly one. The family He has given me consists of the very people I
need in my life to teach me to love unconditionally. The calling He has
given me is the very one I need in order to invest the gifts He has
given me fully and for His glory alone. The income He has allowed me to
have is the exact amount I need to meet my needs, to meet the needs of
those I love, and to "invest" in those ministries He lays upon my heart.
When I moan and mope over an imaginary future that never existed, I
lose every chance of learning contentment, of gaining true riches for it
is "godliness with contentment that is great gain." And sadly, I lose
every chance of trusting delightfully in my Savior so that He can make
my paths straight. Any dream that does not have as its unshakeable
foundation: "If the will of God be so" will end up being a dreadful
nightmare. And, too often, I drag those I claim to love into the abyss
and misery with me.
And sometimes something even more dangerous and
devastating happens when I set my heart on my dream whether God is in it
or not. Sometimes He gives me my dream--apart from His presence and
blessing. Nothing we can accomplish on earth can ever bring us full
satisfaction or full contentment. No matter how completely we fulfill
our dreams apart from Him we will find ourselves feeling empty and
terribly incomplete. If, for example, my perfect vision for The Acres
and the cave were to be accomplished, it would not be completely
fulfilling--if for no other reason than that my life on earth is brief
and temporary. After I die, then what will The Acres provide for my
heart and soul?
No, the only way to find fulfillment in life is to
make God the center of our life and to make obedience to Him the love
that drives our every choice--good times or bad. For when we trust in
the Lord will all our hearts, our dreams become secondary and pleasing
Him--His "well done"--becomes the only thing that really matters. What
He has "dreamed up for us" becomes the resting place for our souls
because we know that that "dream" has eternal worth and eternal
consequence. We learn true contentment. We are richer than we could ever
dream.
God has given us so much to be thankful for, so much that is
worthy of praise and gratitude; and yet, we, ruing our dream
world--fulfilled or unfulfilled--never see His grace, never sense His
love, and lose our hope--lose all touch with the good He's bringing into
our lives right now and with the sure future we have of spending our
eternity with Him. That will be fulfillment. We must live in the present
tense. Our future is in the hands of the God of everlasting
lovingkindness--the God whose mercies are new every morning. And that is
our assured hope--not a dream.