It has been a week of sorrows. A young wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend to many, and a child of the King was unexpectedly taken Home. Yes, taken. He has in perfect wisdom and infinite love numbered our days. And so, He commands us to number our days--to realize how wonderful is the gift of each day that He gives us. We, too, never know when He will take us Home.
Let us rejoice in the day that He has given us--to be glad in it.
To show and to tell those we love how deeply we love them is a love responsibility for today, is it not?
How else does God ask us--command us--to respond? First, sorrow. Sorrowing for the one lost, though temporarily "lost," is not sin. To not sorrow would be sin. Our hearts ache, there is an emptiness in our lives that will not be filled until we embrace the one taken from us once again in glory. Weep--He treasures your tears. He understands. Was He not "a man of sorrows"--on a first name basis with grief? And as children of God our tears are also a reflection of our love for the gift God gave us in making that loved one a vital part of our lives. What a love gift the one lost was to us! The depth of our sorrow reflects the depth of our thankfulness for His love for us in giving that one to us to love us as we loved them.
We are commanded as well to enter as deeply as we can into the sorrow of those who weep. We are told to mourn and to weep with those who mourn and weep. We cannot fully understand their sorrow, but we have suffered loss, and He has comforted us. So by our presence and our prayers we must as deeply as the Spirit enables us share with them in their sorrows. Must. And as I so often encourage you, never let your prayers for them cease. Pop, Mom, others that I loved have been "gone" for what?--ten, fifteen, twenty years. Still, a moment, a memory triggered, a word said can bring the sorrow back into my thoughts. Don't you know that it will be the same for them? Then, as long as we have breath let us pray for the sorrowing that in those moments--one, two, ten, twenty years from now--our prayers will sustain them in their sudden sorrows.
We must--as His children--also have a joy that is deeper than our sorrows. Our time of loss is not a time to question His love but to rejoice in His love. His child--apart from us for a moment--has been presented to the Father by the Son "faultless to stand before the throne," clothed in His righteousness provided on the cross of His love. The room that He has prepared in His Father's House is now hers and for all eternity. "With a love that cannot cease," she is His and He is hers.
Do you remember when Martha--bound to her sense of duty--questioned our Lord's love for her family by not being there to heal Lazarus? "If You loved us, You would not have let this happen." He had failed to do His duty--His duty of love for their family who loved Him. And do you remember His response? No explanation. No defense of His choice. He responded with the most dynamic truth for those who have--are--experiencing the sorrow of loss. "Martha, Martha,"--and I'm sure He took her hands in his not-yet-pierced ones--and whispered, "I Am the Resurrection and the Life, the one who believes in Me shall never die." And then the question, "Do you believe this?" Anna did--and she is more alive today that she has ever been. As the song proclaims, death has "no grip" on her. The tomb has "no hold" on her. "The one who believes in Me shall never die."
Number your days. Weep. Mourn and weep with those who sorrow. Comfort. Pray--continually. Rejoice in His love--nothing can separate His child from Him.
Let us rejoice in the day that He has given us--to be glad in it.
To show and to tell those we love how deeply we love them is a love responsibility for today, is it not?
How else does God ask us--command us--to respond? First, sorrow. Sorrowing for the one lost, though temporarily "lost," is not sin. To not sorrow would be sin. Our hearts ache, there is an emptiness in our lives that will not be filled until we embrace the one taken from us once again in glory. Weep--He treasures your tears. He understands. Was He not "a man of sorrows"--on a first name basis with grief? And as children of God our tears are also a reflection of our love for the gift God gave us in making that loved one a vital part of our lives. What a love gift the one lost was to us! The depth of our sorrow reflects the depth of our thankfulness for His love for us in giving that one to us to love us as we loved them.
We are commanded as well to enter as deeply as we can into the sorrow of those who weep. We are told to mourn and to weep with those who mourn and weep. We cannot fully understand their sorrow, but we have suffered loss, and He has comforted us. So by our presence and our prayers we must as deeply as the Spirit enables us share with them in their sorrows. Must. And as I so often encourage you, never let your prayers for them cease. Pop, Mom, others that I loved have been "gone" for what?--ten, fifteen, twenty years. Still, a moment, a memory triggered, a word said can bring the sorrow back into my thoughts. Don't you know that it will be the same for them? Then, as long as we have breath let us pray for the sorrowing that in those moments--one, two, ten, twenty years from now--our prayers will sustain them in their sudden sorrows.
We must--as His children--also have a joy that is deeper than our sorrows. Our time of loss is not a time to question His love but to rejoice in His love. His child--apart from us for a moment--has been presented to the Father by the Son "faultless to stand before the throne," clothed in His righteousness provided on the cross of His love. The room that He has prepared in His Father's House is now hers and for all eternity. "With a love that cannot cease," she is His and He is hers.
Do you remember when Martha--bound to her sense of duty--questioned our Lord's love for her family by not being there to heal Lazarus? "If You loved us, You would not have let this happen." He had failed to do His duty--His duty of love for their family who loved Him. And do you remember His response? No explanation. No defense of His choice. He responded with the most dynamic truth for those who have--are--experiencing the sorrow of loss. "Martha, Martha,"--and I'm sure He took her hands in his not-yet-pierced ones--and whispered, "I Am the Resurrection and the Life, the one who believes in Me shall never die." And then the question, "Do you believe this?" Anna did--and she is more alive today that she has ever been. As the song proclaims, death has "no grip" on her. The tomb has "no hold" on her. "The one who believes in Me shall never die."
Number your days. Weep. Mourn and weep with those who sorrow. Comfort. Pray--continually. Rejoice in His love--nothing can separate His child from Him.
"I Am the Resurrection and the Life, the one who believes in me shall never die."
"Do you believe this?"